Excitement Normal Depression

Excitement Normal Depression

The constructive range of mood is short range around Normal. Anything away from Normal might be exciting on one hand but depressing on other hand.

Normal person life may look dull and boring and not very exciting but at least it is guraranteed that thier life is not depressing. 

As per law of nature, what swings in one direction, equally swings in opposite direction. Just like a manual weighing scale which has fulcrum in centre and two weighing spaces hanging on both ends of a manual weighing scale.

A balanced weighing scale carry equal weights on both ends. Slight imbalance tilts scale to heavier side. But extremely heavy weight tilts scale by almost 90 degree angle. Such extreme tilt causes extreme imbalance and it does not allow natural swing back in opposite direction. If in case it does by accident, then extreme opposite might happen, which again is exyreme imbalance in opposite direction.

Those who remain close to normal, never feel too much excitement and as a result never feel too much depression.

Extreme excitement tends to create extreme depression. Both are detrimental and irreversible phenomena. Avoiding both are the best course of action.

People who tend to laugh a lot on every occassion ends up in gloominess. People who are sensible to surrounding and act accordingly hardly loose their balance.

Driver

Driver

A horse, a vehicle, a ship, an air plane, a rocket, a JCB, a loader it all need drivers to control the speed and direction of speed.

Without a driver all the above fail to function in a useful way. All the horse power packed in it is useless without a driver.

One may argue that now a days drone capability do not need a driver anymore, which is true. Drone capability of self flying air plane or fighter plane is no better than a stray horse. 

A horse without rider do have capability to move, walk, run but horse itself don't have knowledge of useful direction, distance 

Relation

Relation

Human being build relations with others whether personal or professional. Both types of relations are important and help person to grow. Certain relations are detrimental to one's personality and it depends from culture to culture.

Having a boyfriend orc

ਸਰੀਰ ਅਤੇ ਸੋਚ

ਸਰੀਰ  ਅਤੇ  ਸੋਚ

ਪ੍ਰਮਾਤਮਾ ਹਰ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਵਿਚ ਦੋ  ਰੂਪਾਂ ਵਿਚ ਵਸਦਾ ਹੈ । ਸਰੀਰ ਵਿਵ  ਅਤੇ ਸੋਚ ਵਿਚ ।

Refer to article [Conversion] in unisikh.blogspot.com

Refer to article [    ] in unisikh.blogspot.com

MPs and Demography

MPs and Demography

Election is a complex game and voters respond to candidates based on various factors like party agenda, party profile, candidate agenda, candidate profile and much more.

Conservatives, liberals, NDP, Green, PP, BQ, Independent are options in every riding with some exception.

One of the factor is current party wave and public wave in general. But when Conservatives mainly sweep in Alberta, Saskatchewan and Manitoba and yet Liberal wins overall, it tells a little special story. Why such divide of vote happened. Is it really because all three provinces did not get fair share from Ottawa or something else. Are all three provinces effected by Translink Gas Pipeline? Did Saskatchewan  and Manitoba had symphathy with Alberta and helped them to show collective resentment. Further they camapigned for #wexit to show their resentment.

Why South Surrey elected Conservative whereas rest of Surrey elected non-conservative?

Who won in rich and caucasian dominated riding through out Canada?

Coordination in Relation

Coordination in Relation

Relations are sustained based on multiple factors such as likemindedness, trust, understanding, common interests, adaptation and so on. 

Yet one of common factor that put cracks in relations are lack of coordination, especially when dealing with third party as a couple. When one of the partner out of excitment or lack of understanding fail to involve other partner when dealing with third party. Sometimes uninvolved partner may be over skeptic or over reactive and may expect other partner to understand him/her first and only then initiate conversation or dealing with third party. 

What ever the reason might be, but certainly failing to involve other partner might create tension between couple.

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Craiglist's Used Cars and Trucks Deals of the Week (month).

Cars, Trucks, Vans, SUVs are need of every human being for commuting to work and travelling to favourite places by their own vehicle.

I old days drivers were concerned about the safety, comfort, control, performance, speed and budget.

Now as price of fuel is going up and cost of living is going high, people are concerned about fuel econony of vehicle along with budget yet they prefer to get reliability, performance, safety, entertainment, automated controls and information gadgets.

New generation drivers are and would be more concerned about impact of vehicle on environment. Lot of people have switched back to bicycles in Vancouver downtown area. Shaw has placed fleets of bicycles on key locations in down town area for ease of bicycle rental. Even a small amount of vehicle owners have started selling their vehicles due to high cost of parking, fuel and insurances in down town area.

Worse part about vehicle is high cost of repair and people prefer to buy new compact and fuel efficient vehicles rather than fixing it.

Yet there is big chunk of new drivers who just got new driving licence and are excited to buy their first dream vehicle.

Every one like brand new car, but even a basic new car monthly cost is quite high and it hurts especially when cost of living and cost of housing have increased tremendously compared to increase in wages. Grocery, Gas, rent, utilities and other necessaities have aknost double in last decade whereas income hasn't.

Domestic vehicles reliability and performance is on verge of major challenge from Japanese and Korian vehicles. 

Even most challenging is buying a new or used vehicle for new drivers who have never driven a car before or who don't know much about vehicles mechanics and performance and end up buying a wrong car which does not serve tgeir needs promptly.

Further mostly greedy sales people who are concerned about their pay cheque, persuade their customers to buy such a car which may not fit in their budget, not fit for their needs and might be a pure lemon.

There are very few drivers who know what they are in need and buy accordingly.

Car is such a thing which excite buyer more than a house. Most buyers cross their need limit and jump into unrealistic wants and over spend on vehicles. Some buyers are pushed into their wants zone by greedy or unprofessional sales people. 

Buying a wrong (unneeded) car in unafforable budget range and a gas guzzler and a lemon is the worse mistake any buyer can make. But one way or the other, buyers do make such mistakes. Further expert sales managers don't let people to think and do right budget calculations. They put such a sense of urgency regarding the vehicle that buyer think if they dont buy it then they may lose a bargain or best deal.

Even after knowing everything, buying a reliable, long lasting, budget friendly, fuel efficient, excellent performance, safe and full of gadgets vehicle 

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In the name of God and under guidance of True Guru

In the name of God under the guidance of True Guru

In the name of God under the guidance of True Guru act responsibly and rightously.

There is God

There is Guide

There is you

Both protect you and guide you for rightousness with responsubility for yourself and humanity.

Maya has biggest and intoxicating effect on you and by acting alone, no matter how rightously and responsibly, you are prone to be captured by Maya in an infinite circle of sadness, pain and suffering, restlessness without the clue of brraking the circle to eternal freedom and joyness. 

Transition of life

Transition of life

It is evident by every second, every minute, every hour, every day, every night, every week, every month, every year as universal time clock never stops or delays.

Transition of life is not only dependent on time through which we bring or notice changes in ourselves, others. It also depends how fast you learn the actual reality and adjust your mind clock to perfect pace of real life.

As we know during pain the clock moments seem very very long and during fun time clock moments seem very very short.

Actual clock time is pretty much constant but our feelings either feel it long or short.

Computer which has no feelings never feel that way and neither a quartz clock unless battery dies down.

But life itself is a transition. At some point of life we all suddenly stop and sense the substantial change over the period of time during which we never bothered to sense it. Grey hairs, children getting married, someone calling you uncle or aunt and worse call you old school. 

Law of life is that it has a rhythm and during such rhythm we hardly notice changes consciously.

Lawbof life is that when rhythm is broken at some point due to some reason, we find it annoying and distasteful. Along with it we notice in ourself, others and surroundings a lot of changes as we discussed above.

It generally brings us shock and sense of loss. It could be loss of youthfulness, friends, family members, relatives, surrounding and most importantly lifetime.

We all have finite lifetime if there is no unexpected disease, accident or death. Lifetime has three components: past, present, future.

When we are in rhythm of life and trapped in success or fame, the time flies and we don,t bother observing anything. But lifetime clock keep ticking and we age by every tick. First 25 years of lifetime are very exciting, curiousity, adventures and full of learning. Next 25 years of lifetime teach us reality, responsibilities, compromises, adjustments and value of work, money and family. This is middle lifetime period and we all feel the pressure of life in one  way or other. Next 25 years are lastspan of worklife for most of us and it is time of prestige, status, fame and power. Most powerful positions in society and government are enjoyed by this age group. Making new rules, regulations, laws and maintaining them are their prime jobs.

Last lifespan if you qualify would be another any number of years from 76 to 100. This is retirement age and time to slow down and accept the reality of leaving the world at some point.

Conversion

Conversion

Information is measureable form of senses and transforms into knowledge of nature and thoughts of minds. Thoughts of mind converts into feelings. Feelings converts into desires, possibilities, ideas, commitment, will and actions. It all happens through words simultaneously in our mind. Invisible ideas convertsbinto visible realities . Intangibles convertsv into tangible realities. Impossibility converts into possibility

It all might be possible to conceive and realize without real words for oneself but to share with others we need vehicle of words. Without words you have no information for others and most importantly for oneself.

Words make ideas alive and immortal. Words stores information for ages for benefit to others who have similar desires and determination to follow through.

Word itself is comprised of combination of sounds. Word has three distinct attributes.: shape, sound and sense 3S.

Shape of word is the script of alphabets that comprise the word.

Sound of word is the distinct sound of individual alphabets that compromise it.

Sense of word is the meaningful information about some activity, event, process, entity, object, subject etc.

Shape is mainly subject for eyes.

Sound is mainly subject for ears.

Sense is mainly subject for brain.

All three inputs when combined and learned by heart becomes property of individual mind. Quantity and quality of words defines individual personalities. Personalities further can be recognised through distinct names. Names itselves are words that identify individual human beings.

Physical identity and sensible scholastic information (wisdom) of individual distinguish from others. Again remembered or referred through one's name.

Dharam ki Paurree Sant ka Marg

ਜਤੀ ਸਤੀ ਤਪੀ

ਜਤੀ ਸਤੀ ਤਪੀ

ੴ ਸਤਿਨਾਮ ਗੁਰਪ੍ਰਸਾਦਿ ॥

ਜਤ ਸਮਾਜ 'ਤੇ ਪਰਿਵਾਰ 

ਵਿਚ ਰਹਿ ਕੇ ਹੀ ਹੋ ਸਕਦਾ ਹੈ ।

ਸਤ ਸਮਾਜ, ਪਰਿਵਾਰ, ਸੰਨਿਆਸ 

ਹਰ ਜਗਾ ਜਰੂਰੀ ਹੈ ।

ਤਪ, ਜਤ ਅਤੇ ਸਤ ਤੋੰ ਬਗੈਰ ਵਿਅਰਥ ਹੈ ।

ਤਪ ਸਾਧਨਾ ਹੈ, ਸਚੇ ਦੀ (ਮਿਹਨਤ)

ਸਤ ਸੁਕਿਰਤ ਹੈ, ਸਚੇ ਦੀ (ਮਾਰਗ)

ਜਤ ਸੰਕੋਚ ਹੈ, ਸਚੇ ਦੀ ਮਾਇਆ ਦਾ ( ਆਚਾਰਣ)

ਜਤ-ਸਤ-ਤਪ ਤਿੰਨਹੇ ਗੁਣ ਹਰ ਇਕ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਵਿਚ ਹੋਣੇ ਚਾਹੀਦੇ ਹਨ । ਤਮੋ-ਰਜੋ-ਸਤੋ ਗੁਣਾਂ ਦਾ ਮਿਸ਼ਰਣ ਹਰ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਵਿਚ ਹੁੰਦਾ ਹੈ । ਇਹ ਤਿੰਨ ਲੈਵਲ ਹਨ ਧਰਮ ਦੀ ਦੁਨਿਆ ਵਿਚ । 

ਤਮਾ ਤਰਿਸ਼ਣਾ ਹੈ, ਸੰਸਾਰ ਦੀ ਮਾਇਆ ਦੀ

ਰਜਾ ਸੰਤੁਸ਼ਟੀ ਹੈ, ਸੰਸਾਰ ਦੀ ਮਾਇਆ ਦੀ

ਸਤ ਸੱਚ ਦਾ ਮਾਰਗ ਹੈ, ਸੰਸਾਰਿਕ ਮਾਇਆ ਤੋੰ

ਇਹ ਤਿੰਨ ਗੁਣ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਨੂੰ ਬਹੁਤ ਉ ੱਚਾ ਚੁੱਕ ਦੇੰਦੇ ਹਨ, ਪੁਰਾਣੇ ਧਾਰਮਿਕ ਗ੍ਰਥਾਂ ਅਨੂਸਾਰ 

ਪਰ ਗੁਰੂ ਨਾਨਕ ਤਿੰਨ ਗੁਣਾ ਤੋੰ ਸੰਨਤੁਸ਼ਟ ਨਹੀਂ ਹਨ

ਗੁਰੂ ਨਾਨਕ ਚੌਥੇ ਗੁਣ ਦੀ ਨੀਂਹ ਰਖਦੇ ਹਨ  ਅਤੇ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਨੂੰ ਚਾਰ ਗੁਣ ਧਾਰਣ ਕਰਨ ਦੀ ਸਿਖਿਆ ਦੇਂਦੇ ਹਨ ਅਤੇ ਮਾਰਗ ਵਿਖਾਉਂਦੇ ਹਨ ।

ਇਹ ਚੌਥਾ ਗੁਣ ਕੀ ਹੈ ?

ਜੀਵਨ ਦੀ ਗੱਡੀ

ਜੀਵਨ ਦੀ ਗੱਡੀ

ਜੀਵਨ ਦੀ ਗੱਡੀ ਦੇ ਸਫਰ ਦਾ ਅਨੰਦ ਹਰ ਕੋਈ ਮਨੁੱਖ ਮਾਨਦਾ ਹੈ । ਜੀਵਨ ਦੀ ਇਸ ਗੱਡੀ ਦੀ ਰਫਤਾਰ ਹਰ ਮਨੁੱਖ ਲਈ ਇਕੋ ਜਿਹੀ  ਹੈ ।

ਹਰ ਮਨੁੱਖ ਇਸ ਗੱਡੀ ਵਿੱਚ ਟਿਕਟ ਲੈਕੇ ਚੜ੍ਦਾ ਹੈ, ਜਿਸ ਉਤੇ ਮਨੁੱਖ ਦੇ ਗੱਡੀ ਵਿੱਚ ਚੜ੍ਨ ਵਾਲੇ ਸਟੇਸ਼ਨ ਦਾ  ਪੂਰਾ ਅਤਾ-ਪਤਾ ਹੁੰਦਾ ਹੈ ।

ਜਨਮ ਤਾਰੀਖ, ਜਨਮ ਅਸਥਾਨ, ਮਾਤਾ-ਪਿਤਾ ਦਾ ਨਾਮ ਸਭ ਕੁੱਝ ਲਿਖਿਆ ਹੁੰਦਾ ਹੈ । ਜਿੰਦਗੀ ਦੀ ਇਹ ਗੱਡੀ ਗੋਲ ਕਤਾਰੇ ਵਿੱਚ ਘੁੰਮਦੀ ਹੈ । ਹਰ ਇਕ ਸਟੇਸ਼ਨ 'ਤੇ ਕੁਝ ਮਨੁਖ ਗੱਡੀ 'ਤੋਂ ਉਤਰ ਜਾਂਦੇ ਹਨ  ਅਤੇ ਕੁਝ ਚੱੜ੍ ਜਾਂਦੇ ਹਨ ।

ਇਹਨਾਂ ਸਟੇਸ਼ਨਾਂ ਦਾ ਪਤਾ ਚੜ੍ਣ ਅਤੇ ਉਤਰਣ ਵਾਲੇ ਮਨੁੱਖਾਂ ਨੂੰ ਨਹੀਂ ਲਗਦਾ । ਸਿਰਫ ਬੈਠੇ ਹੋਏ ਮੁਸਾਫਿਰਾਂ ਨੂੰ ਹੀ ਲਗਦਾ ਹੈ ।

Religious and Practice

Religious and Practice

Religious: State of mind when we learn by listening and reading virtues of religion by self reading or listening to scholars of religion.

Basic Religious Virtues:

R1 Believe in One God

R2 Believe in Truth

R3 Believe God controls everything

R4 God is Fearless and expect us to 

      be fearless

Practice: State of mind when we think and act based on what we have learned from Religion. In nut shell it is humble practice of religious virtues. Mostly basic religious virtues are similar and might have deviation at advance level.

Basic Practice of Virtues:

P1: Dont believe in human theories

P2: Practice Truth

P3: Practice your belief that God does everything. It means no one has power to change what is happening and going to happen. It means dont believe in astrolgers, palmist, cult science, black magic, psychics and religious Masters, Babas, Pundits, Tantric and so on.

P4: Practice Fearlessness. It means never intimidate

P5: Biaslessness: Treat everyone equal. Disregard color, caste, race, ethnicity, gender, status and so on.

P6: Company those who are Biasless and Fearless or atleast practicing it.

1984 and its aftermaths

1947 bruised psyche of our parents and grandparents. 1984 bruised us. Even though most punjabis like me were not involved in any political or militant wave, yet everyone in punjab suffered from atrocities of government, one way or the other.

After 1984 the Punjab was not the same Punjab. I still love Punjab and India but from 1984 onwards it gave a feeling of something missing in me. My own village was not same village to me. I was scared to go there. Either so-called militants or police/CRPF/Army or black-cats may arrest me and torture me for nothing. 

My generation suffered from 1984 and its aftermaths.

Deeds

Deeds

Curiosity

Desire to know

Seeking Information/knowledge

Learning

Understanding

Acknowledging (ਮਨੈ)

Memorising Logically

Generalising 

Developing plan or process

Applying 

Controlled actions

Monitoring progress

Results

Analysis of quality and quantity

Adjusting inputs

Controlling focus

Reanalysis 

Feedback

Adjustment to plan and process

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